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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck. I hate that I only bitch here LJ but I need you. I can't pay rent I have some infection and I started thyroid meds and feel like an emotional jack tard. So getting this on face book before leaving work was not the high note I wanted to start my week on. Oh and lucky me I am coaching tomorrow. yay!!!

"Started thinking more about what you were asking Saturday night and I think you caught me off guard. I have been talking to people about you not playing and the reason is you are more of a safety risk than anything. I feel like you are not very firm on your skates and don't take hits very well at all. I know we all have A LOT to work on but I don't feel like you are safe out on the track. I also recommended you be taken off of the coach list as I feel like you have a hard time doing most of the things you are supposed to be teaching all of us. I hope you can take this as constructive criticism and not be too upset with what I have just said. But I felt like I fibbed a bit when you asked me on Saturday night. I wanted to be honest."

this is a teamate. lovely eh?

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agonybliss
Sep. 13th, 2011 05:56 am (UTC)

Ew sounds like time for a new team

deathrockgirl
Sep. 13th, 2011 07:05 pm (UTC)
yeah she's a biatch
I just emailed her back. I had to cool off almost quit for good. This is what I sent her...
You're kinda sticking your head where it doesn't belong. But go ahead and say what you're gonna say it's a free country. I have already talked to XXXXX, without mentioning your name and she backs me 100% on coaching. I also made XXXX aware that I have situation like this but all she knows it someone on our team, you can talk to her if you want she's the skater relations person. I am just going to ignore you for health reasons. I don't need this bullshit from you or anyone else. We're all important to this league and it's operation. So you do your jobs and I will stay off your toes and I will continue to do mine I only ask for the same respect from you. It's only 3 more months.
agonybliss
Sep. 14th, 2011 02:01 am (UTC)
Re: yeah she's a biatch
Good for you! Sounds like you handled it just the right way
damsie
Sep. 14th, 2011 04:22 am (UTC)
With those types of "friends"... ya know? Fuck.

Anyway. This is something you really enjoy... You've stuck with it for a long time and this is something you are passionate about. I hate the term "constructive criticism". It's an out.

I'm glad you're sticking with it. Don't let this person be a fucking hurdle to your success with the team or derby in general.
deathrockgirl
Sep. 14th, 2011 05:54 pm (UTC)
She didn't even show to practice. I think I called her ass out and now she's worried. Her email is so not contructive... I mean really trying to get someone fired is not contructive. LOL.
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